The Clan Letters

IS BACK

Oct 10, 2025

I HAVE MISSED WRITING THE CLAN LETTERS SO MUCH, but now i am back and here to stay.

My thought

There is a certain kind of loneliness that comes with building something meaningful one that many can’t quite understand. It’s truly an “if you know, you know” experience.

It’s lonely because you have a strong conviction about what you’re creating, at the same time you have questions. Then there are people’s opinions, situations, and circumstances around you begging you to do otherwise. Yet, you keep going.

You’ve not seen results, you’ve not made the level of progress you might have anticipated or hoped for or maybe you estimated certain things because of the uninformed optimism you had and now you feel disappointed by the pace at which things are going or at the number of pivots that need to be made through this process.

It’s not a bad experience you know, it’s part of the journey that very few get to experience which is building something from scratch. Something you care about, birthing something you dreamt about.

And through this what I would admonish is;

Be humble to learning.
Don’t isolate yourself because you’re not where you want to be yet
Immerse yourself in experiences that aligns with the person you want to be, it will help you. It helps to make it more real, especially when the reality feels contrary.
Have faith, the whole concept of faith is really about hoping on things not yet seen.

Points to Ponder

I cannot resign myself to seeing it grow, without contributing to it. …Edward Michelin

You are allowed to be both a masterpiece and a work in progress simultaneously. …Sophia Bush

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